Becoming a lady, is not as hard as you think. First learn how to present yourself in public, having good manners and being respectful is very lady like. In other words, don't speak or act like, you were raised on the Jerry Springer show. Second, dress respectfully. This doesn't mean you need to dress like Laura from Little House on the Prairie. But don't expose your bra and underwear, and don't wear clothes that are too low cut, or too short, leave a something to the imagination. You will find that once you start to act like a lady, you will get more respect from people, and they will take you more seriously.